Be.Do.Have
I think there’s a lot of mindsets out there that have a lot of things backwards.
Though I believe our world is in a beautiful time of awakening, I am not naive to the contrast present – everywhere.
As a dedicated light worker of this planet it’s my intention to help shift the contrast by helping to shift mindsets, one at a time.
Today I want to talk about one that I’m applying to my life today; Be.Do.Have.
The backwards part I was hinting at is that I think a lot of people are taught this concept backwards.
It’s a concept that can be applied to any part of life but for example I’ll bring up a favorite topic – money.
A common belief is that a person must have money, in order to do the things they desire so they can then be the person they feel they were meant to be. (I.e successful)
Sounds like an easy enough equation though right?? That’s until we try applying it to our real lives!
I’m not sure about you but I have seemed to get stuck at the “having” part of all that.
Once the equation was flipped around for me it all made sense as to why the things I desired and was working towards weren’t in my “having” reach.
But before I flip it around I want to look at it as it’s commonly taught. Have.Do.Be
Well how are we supposed to have things without doing?? Positive thinking works but it don’t work THAT well.
When I’m digging into what concepts mean to me I like to break down the word by its definition. What does it mean to have?
What I found was to “posses, own, hold or experience.”
Interesting. Well pretty sure that I can’t own hold or experience anything, including money, without doing something first.
Now, being that this is the 21st century and there’s a ton of human doings running around maybe this isn’t a big wake up call – yet.
Maybe you’re thinking “Well duh I have to do things in order to have the things I desire.”
Okay, okay, okay. But what about the last part of the original equation. The BE part.
When I’m approached either in person or online by someone whom I haven’t talked to in awhile and they ask the oh so famous question “Sooo, what have you been up to?” My favorite, and most heart centered, authentic, every time response is “Being.”
*crickets*
Most people have NO IDEA how to respond to that.
That one word has so much depth, and yet it’s the core of what we really are – human beings.
So we have things, cause we do things.. But who are we being as we are doing these things? And which identity of our being is wanting all the things that drives the doing?
I’m not sure most people get to that part of the equation. If they did I’m not sure I would have as many awkward reaquaintences as I do.
Now my friends… Let’s flip the equation.
What if before we made plans, or schedules or life agendas we operated from a place of Be.Do.Have.
What if we asked ourselves – Who do I want to be.. And what does that person do so they can enjoy the things they have?
Even in reverse – if you’re like me you know what you want to have. Then we still start back from the top we just have the last bit of the equation filled out.
I desire to BE _________________
In order to joyfully DO ____________________
So I can HAVE the abundance that feeds the experiences for myself and others that I desire.
The fun part of this – we get to re-fill out these blanks every day of our lives. It’s us embracing our right to our own free will and being in alignment for what we came here for.
It’s the game of life friends, let’s make our turns count.
Until next time
-Namaste-
P.s. If this concept sounds great but some further guidance would be very helpful to you – please reach out and connect with me for a Free Shift of Perception consultation. Which is really a walkabout between souls 😉
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